Do you know why do people scream, shout & cry when they argue/quarrel?

I didn’t know why…. But here’s an explanation which I found quite true.

Because when people argue/quarrel, their hearts are getting more and more farther from each other, thus they have to scream, shout & cry so that you can listen. So that you will know.

While when you are okay, you don’t have to scream, shout & cry, all you need to do is just talk softly accompanied some laughters, and you can even whisper. That’s when our hearts are close.

I read about this explanation in Mandarin some time ago. And somehow I think it’s quite true.

Please bear with me when I scream, shout & cry. Because that’s when I need you to listen. I need you to understand. I need you to hear. I need you to know.