It’s been a while since I sit down in front of my personal laptop and really wanna blog properly (read: verbal diarrhea).

The past 2 months+ was like a roller coaster, or at least it was to me.

Now that I have a boyfriend & I’m totally in a new & fresh relationship (I hope it still is!) and Valentine’s Day is less than 2 weeks away! At first I was quite nervous because mine always got jinxed! #foreverjinxed

But after talking to Duffy, I become so excited suddenly! It’s our first Valentine’s Day and both of us don’t wanna ruin it so we planned together. Right, there will be no surprise but it’s perfectly okay with me.

This sounds really corny but you don’t have to be extra nice to your other half just because it’s a Valentine’s Day.

HOWEVER, it doesn’t eliminate the fact that you should make the other half feel extra special on the special occasions.

Thing is I really hate it whenever a guy told me that he’s not willing to spend a lil bit more (e.g. buy her presents/bring her to a nicer place or at least accompany her) on the special occasions and giving girls the lame excuse as I have just mentioned above that “everyday’s a Valentine’s Day if you’re with the right person”.

Oh really?

If it’s so, why won’t you just make some effort to prove it on the special occasions?

Because it really goes a long way and us girls appreciate it.

Don’t be lazy & give us that lame line!

Just make some effort that you appreciate the fact that she spend that day with you (it should goes in both ways and not one -way traffic) and she will see it.

Don’t bullshit her. Girls are not that bimbotic, at least not most of us.

The only reason why girls tolerate your bullshits and holding onto it is only because she loves you.

Don’t take that for granted. The moment you take that for granted is the moment she starts to evaluate the relationship & you, and most of the time, it’s no good ending.

I don’t know why I sound so angsty in this entry, maybe because I’m so tired of how Malaysian guys are being so lazy in making some effort to make their girls happy/happier, but they keep whining instead.

Stop being so egoistic. It’s 2012 already!

Make some effort & you won’t be #foreveralone!

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5th February 2012 Duffy, Malaysia, Personal, Verbal diarrhea 2 comments

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